Soulwork Solutions: Coaching & Resistance Coaching Resistant Clients © Martyn Carruthers Have you ever been in a shop with a salesman who tried to sell you things that you did not want? Perhaps you were polite at first, but repeated sales ploys irritated you until you were angry. The salesman Read more…
Alienated Family Members Resolving Estranged Relationships © Martyn Carruthers Relationship alienation hurts families and damages children. Reconnecting After Cutting Off Have you ever rejected a family member – or were you ever rejected? We help people who feel abandoned, estranged or “cut-off”. And we help people who have alienated family Read more…
Solutions for Children’s Emotional Problems Solve Childhood Problems © Martyn Carruthers 1999 Prevent and Solve Children’s Emotional Problems Children who appear to lack concentration or curiosity, or who are a nuisance to teachers, may be labeled learning disabled – or worse. However, many troubled children are punished or medicated for Read more…
After a Family Suicide Dissolving Emotional Chaos © Martyn Carruthers What can you do after a relative suicides … or tries to? I have helped many people deal with the suicides of parents, partners, siblings and children. Here are some of my lessons about suicides in the family. Healing a Read more…
End Self-Criticism © Martyn Carruthers 2009 Do you want to end self-sabotage or self-criticism? Do you damage your happiness and hurt your success? Do you want to untangle difficult emotions or relationships? Also see: End Self-Criticism, End Depression & Emotional Incest Do you Sabotage yourself? When things go well, Read more…
Online Solutions for Stress Coping with Life’s Problems © Martyn Carruthers Do you want to manage negative emotions and solve relationship issues? Are you overloaded with stress? Does stress interfere with your study, work, relationships and family? Are you stuck in stress reactions, phobias, obsessions or compulsions? While many people Read more…
How to Solve Emotional & Relationship Problems Life Coaching & Family Counseling Algorithms We researched how healthy people manage emotions and solve relationship issues, and we created algorithms to replicate their success and end self-sabotage. We help people evaluate and resolve unwanted conflicts, beliefs and identify issues. Individual Coaching / Read more…
Dream Anxiety: Nightmares & Repetitive Dreams Night Dreams and Day Dreams © Martyn Carruthers We offer dream work in which we help you dismantle dreams from the inside out. Dreamwork and Dreaming Together is an integral part of our systemic psychology. Are You the Dreamer? Or are You the Dreamed? Read more…
Steps to healthy relationships © Martyn Carruthers Abuse can cause identity issues, difficult emotions and self-sabotage. Forgiving or forgetting abuse is not enough, and being forced to forgive is another form of abuse. Are you Bonded to People who Abused You? Bonding is normal human behavior. Are you bonded to Read more…
Online Help for Partnership Problems © Martyn Carruthers Arguments are part of relationships. Arguments reflect your values, beliefs, boundaries and bonds. Healthy arguments can INCREASE your happiness together. Unhealthy arguments can destroy your relationships. Arguments are essential. Arguments help you fine tune your relationships and challenge injustices. Yet some arguments Read more…