Opening Pandora’s Box © Martyn Carruthers Online Help & Training We coach individuals, partners, families and teams. Our life coaching can increase individual happiness and reduce suffering. Our relationship counseling can increase the adaptability and survival of relationship systems. We embed systemic life coaching and counseling into our online therapy. Read more…
Workshop Organizers & Organization Emotional and relationship problems have many solutions that are nice, simple and wrong. Health, wealth and happiness are created in human systems – and require systemic solutions. Online Life Coaching & Mentorship Our systemic coaching does not replace classic coaching. Classic coaching is useful when individuals Read more…
Overly simple, naive solutions for relationship problems can have unpleasant consequences. You can do better than that. Online Help, Relationship Counseling & Soulwork Therapy Martyn Carruthers Words can justify freedom or bondage. The same words can build hatred or happiness. Today’s truth quickly becomes tomorrow’s foolishness and my words Read more…
The Road to Hell © Martyn Carruthers 2009 Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Therapy Hell is full of good intentions. Saint Bernard of Clairvaux (1091-1153) I just wanted to help. I thought that you’d like it. I really meant it for the best. It seemed like such a good idea. Read more…
Emotional Health & Relationships © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Training & Mentorship How can one person possibly make a difference? Much advice for emotional and relationship problems is nice, simple and wrong. Good intentions and kind advice so often result in unpleasant consequences. We help people solve problems and Read more…
End Self Sabotage © Martyn Carruthers Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy Relationships are an essential part of life. Healthy relationships include caring, support and respect. Unhealthy relationships may be based on power, fear, dependence or poor communication skills. We help people build and enjoy healthy relationships. Resolve Relationship Conflicts Read more…
Emotional & Relationship Problems © Martyn Carruthers Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy Soulwork does not replace life coaching nor psychotherapy. Life coaching is useful when people make decisions in controllable environments with simple objectives. Psychotherapy is useful for people with diagnosable dysfunction. Our systems coaching is superb for people Read more…
Goal Orientation & Results © Martyn Carruthers Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy If a miracle happened, and your problems were solved, what would you change? Therapy & Systemic Coaching Some therapists and coaches (but not all) focus on helping people reach their goals. Both therapists and coaches may talk Read more…
Happiness is not luck! © Martyn Carruthers 2002 Online Relationship Counseling & Soulwork Therapy Man soll den anderen so nehmen er ist, nicht so wie man ihn haben moechte. (See people as they are, not the way that you want them to be. Bari) If you visit Munich, maybe take Read more…
A Comparison © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Training Our systemic coaching does not replace classical coaching, consulting, counseling, psychotherapy or psychiatry. Each is useful for different objectives and different problems. Our systems coaching is useful when solving relationship problems with complex emotional issue s and ambiguous Read more…