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Advanced & Specialty Training

Online Help: Counseling, Therapy & Training

Our clients may be individuals, partners, families, teams or organizations.
Most of our individual coaching is to increase happiness and reduce suffering.
Most of our systemic coaching increases relationship health, flexibility and survival .

You can save money by choosing short-term systemic coaching over long-term therapy. Get most of the changes you want and use your money for other choices.

1. Family Coaching (Systems 9)

A family is a community of human beings, not a collection of human resources.

Do you want to help families build harmony and manage complaints? Do you want to help them solve transferences and triangular conflicts? This includes solutions for emotional incest, with parent coaching and adoption counseling. Most parents want their children grow and succeed. Family coaching helps keep both parents and children focused and motivated. Our family coaching can help family members find family goals while understanding how to reach their own goals too.

We coach families who want more pleasure and happiness together - with less conflicts and other problems. Enjoy healthier relationships with better communications, more focus and happier members. (You can choose to relate in healthy ways regardless of the maturity of other people).

2. Team Coaching (Systems 10)

Do you trust the people you work with?
Do you know what‘s going on? If you don‘t… find out!

Do you want to coach team leaders and teams to build effective and dynamic harmony? Recognize and solve hidden agendas and other common team problems. You can coach team leaders to select and support team members - and vice versa. Balance team maintenance with team effectiveness. How to work directly with the owner, director or CEO - followed by team coaching - for best results.

Learn how team members connect and bond. This knowledge of team and team leaders can include the fate of their predecessors. Our team coaching provides deep insights into unconscious conflicts, and provides solutions to remedy unhappy teams and excluded team members.

  • Gain agreement on goals or plans
  • Build support for team leader
  • Dissolve hidden agendas
  • Better communication skills
  • Clear roles without conflict
  • Efficient use of time

3. Corporate Coaching (Systems 11)

Do you want to coach CEOs, owners, directors and managers to evaluate and redefine organizations? You can coach teams to manage communication difficulties and change any resistance to success.

The problems of change are obvious and the problems of not changing are predictable. A human system acts and respond like a complex person. A key question is "What to change - in what sequence - how?" Our systemic coaching answers this and similar questions.

Do you want to coach CEO's and managers to redefine their services to adapt to cultural expectations, emerging markets and changing societal values? Our corporate coaching includes individual and couple coaching for managers, team coaching for management, and expert modeling for line staff.

4. Community Coaching (Systems 12)

Do you want to coach community leaders to manage difficulties between families, cultures and religions within their community? This complex coaching integrates all strategies from systemic coaching strategies and training. (This is advanced training. Participants should have completed our systemic coach training 10 and 11 or have massive coaching experience.)

Systemic Coach Trainer Training

Our trainers are expert with our unique systemic coaching methods. We train trainers to train people to gain deep insights into personal, health or work related issues. We demonstrate how to help people perceive situations and find solutions, and we test the consequences of those potential solutions on the family, team or organization before making changes.

Our trainers-in-training develop both trainer and mentor competencies, and high quality leadership skills. Potential trainers assist our systemic coach training, and participate in supervision and mentorship.

If you are already consciously developing your relationship skills at family, team and community level, you may enjoy our trainer-training program. Otherwise ... maybe choose something less demanding.

Do you want to demonstrate systemic coaching skills with unknown people before public audiences? Do you want to monitor class exercises; provide feedback and correct situations in front of audiences? Our graduate coaches are competent ... our trainers are more than competent ... they are excellent.

Competence is not enough - our trainer training develops expertise

Our trainers represent enormous experience and demonstrated competence. Our trainer licensing requires complete systemic coach training, 2000 hours of documented client contact using systems coaching or systemic corporate coaching. Trainers-in-training learn advanced classroom skills, and receive hands-on instruction and personal coaching while co-training with the founders.

Trainer Licensing is granted when all conditions are fulfilled

We do not support people who teach our material without our approval. We refuse such people further training and we only accept their students in our advanced training if they can show competence in relationship diagnosis, dissolving not-conscious objections and recovering identity loss.

Specialty Systemic Coach Training

Each of specialty course has a theme of excellence, innovation and competence.
Specialty courses include demonstrations, exercises and specific skills training.

Educational Coaching

  1. Expert Modeling - Coaching expert performance
  2. Accelerated Learning- Coaching students for rapid learning
  3. Prevent Learning Disabilities - Coaching parents to prevent LDs in children

Systemic Solutions for Management

  1. Interviewing - Hiring, Inspiring and Firing
  2. Negotiating - Winning so that everybody benefits
  3. Integrity Selling - "Selling" as a long term relationship
  4. Decision Coaching- Assistance in making critical decisions
  5. Creativity Coaching - Generating choices and effective ideas

Emergency Preparedness

  1. Basics - Responding to emergencies and crisis
  2. Getting Ready - Overview of emergency skills and roles
  3. Preparing for Disaster - Skills for making critical decisions
  4. Plans and Operations - Specific emergencies and their control
  5. Crisis Coaching - Assisting people in various crisis and traumatic situations

More Specialty Courses

  1. Preparing for Partnership - Get ready for partnership happiness!
  2. Huna Kalani - Click HERE for information about ancient Hawaiian healing
  3. Sport Coaching - Coach athletes to duplicate skills and to be mental prepared
  4. Design a Coach! - We create coach training programs to fit your needs
  5. NLP Practitioner & Master - Includes defense against the dark arts of covert manipulation

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email