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Online Solutions for Coaches,
 Counselors & Therapists

Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy

Are you a therapist, a counselor or a coach? Do you occasionally want advice or guidance about difficult clients or about complex client problems? We can help you improve your skills and increase your benefits for your clients.

Are you a Coach, Counselor or Therapist?

Are you a helping professional? Do you sometimes wish that you had a coach? Do you sometimes want coaching or mentoring about difficult clients, ethical issues and relationship problems? Your clients have you - do you sometimes envy them? Do you want to enjoy greater success yourself?

Are you using conversational (coaching, therapy or counseling) skills to assist people to accelerate their professional and personal development? Or do you try to fit the same techniques to each person? Who mentors you to achieve your best?

Alternative & Complementary Therapy . Comparison of Coaching Styles

You may not have all the answers, but you give people space to talk about their situations, discuss their blocks and explore their ideas for solutions. Perhaps you provide support and feedback by telephone or online meetings. If so, you and your client practice could be anywhere from Alaska to Zanzibar.

Between us, we have over a hundred years of experience using and teaching systems coaching, and we find four essential skills for effective and lasting changework. The most effective coaches, counselors or therapists - we have known usually:

  1. focus on their clients' goals - not theories
  2. have healthy personal relationships
  3. focus on goals - not on problems
  4. set appropriate homework

Our online help can be as close and personal as you wish, with as much contact as you want. We can provide a shoulder that you can lean on from time to time, a sounding board to discuss your difficult clients, a source of feedback and a way to check your relationships with your clients. Some helping professionals want sporadic support, while others prefer regular weekly online meetings.

Many people ask for a helping hand but want a helping foot!

The theme of your meetings varies with your goals and needs. Do you want mentoring in your own development, in human resources (staff and workload), or in dissolving stress (dealing with difficult people)? These are important for helping professionals - and for their partners and families.

Many helping professionals do not know where to find confidential help.
Sometimes coaches, counselors and therapists find themselves in
difficult situations, with nowhere to turn. People in associations
often avoid alerting their peers to any lack of knowledge or skills.

Benefits of an Online Mentor

Stressful events can challenge your sense of safety and trigger emotional and physical body reactions. You can prepare in advance and you can get our mentoring to cope with a crisis. Quality mentoring can be important for your emotional health during stressful times.

A mentor coach can also help you ...

  1. Set marketing goals
  2. Work with difficult clients
  3. Improve your practice skills
  4. Plan to expand your practice
  5. Plan your professional development

Online Mentoring for Consultants, Counselors & Therapists

Consulting: As a consultant you solve specific problems. You bring expertise and give advice, opinions, and propose solutions. You find answers to specific problems, but you may not transfer a knowledge base or skills to your clients.

We can help you find your own answers. We can support you to define your goals, and help you implement changes, meet new challenges and learn new skills.

Counseling: As a counselor you have history, experience and (hopefully) wisdom. You attempt to transfer your wealth of knowledge to your clients.

We can help you identify appropriate information in your own experience and use your creativity to find your own insights. We can coach you on your own path of self-discovery and creative expression.

Therapy: As a therapist, you work with people about their past and its impact on their present. You help people who are in crisis or who sabotage themselves with unresolved issues from their past.

We find you whole, healthy and creative. Starting from where you are now, a mentor coach can help you find functional and effective ways to accomplish your goals and improve your life.

With your mentoring, I was able to better assist some difficult clients who I would have otherwise refused, and I could better recognize (and refuse) a couple of potential clients who could have been explosive. Singapore

Bottom Line on Online Systemic Mentoring

In every field, top people have mentors ... why shouldn't you? Do you care for your own needs? Do you ignore or forget important details? We coach and mentor helping professionals to achieve their goals ... their way.

It will be easier for you to fulfill your goals with a mentor supporting, provoking and encouraging you. You can become much more focused and produce better results. You can improve your skills, and your skills translate into your success. You can gain better control over your beliefs, your emotions, your practice ... and your life.

Sometimes you may need a helping hand ... and sometimes a helping foot.

Do you want relationship counseling or systems training?
Do you want to manage emotional issues and relationship problems?

Online Help, Relationship Counseling & Soulwork Therapy

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Soulwork systemic coaching in America & Hawaii


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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email