Martyn founded, develops and teaches Soulwork
Systemic Solutions. He coaches people to develop their sense of life by
ending self-sabotage and by defining and solving relationship problems, with
friends, partners, children, students, team members and communities
ways to help people identify and change how they sabotage their own lives,
their relationships and their success, how they allow other people to
sabotage their dreams - and how they may sabotage the dreams of other people.
I dishonor myself if I worry about
reputation. Many people criticize what they do not understand. I believe
in my work, I write about it and I try to defend it from theft. I have
done enough fence-sitting. Martyn 2004
So many people sabotage their own happiness - usually following unchallenged
beliefs and continuing habits from their families and communities of origin.
Martyn tailors his coaching for each person, so his
changework may include changing emotional habits, memories and beliefs. He
encourages people to speak their truth and be heard. He helps people gain
sense of life as they change limiting habits and achieve their goals.
For Answers to Common Questions: See
about the origin and development of our systemic coaching see
|Systemic Coach Training
trainings are presented by Martyn Carruthers and Kosjenka Muk
in Europe, with workshops in Chicago, Hawaii, Singapore, South Africa
and Australia. See Training Calendar
coaching & training, expert modeling and relationship coaching.
Kosjenka specializes in family issues, Emanuel in financial coaching, Kreso
in clinical psychology and Marinka in education ...
online & telephone coaching or you may come to
us; or you can organize an event and bring one of us to you.
||We often provide
mentorship and tips
to coaches, therapists & counselors.
||Our training is
based on demonstrations. Our trainers can demonstrate effective
coaching with almost any healthy, motivated adult. This requires experience
that we feel can only be gained in a coaching practice.
Martyn emphasizes safety, provocation and compassion in his
Tips for Systemic Coaches
Instead of jumping to conclusions, I now
communicate honestly and respectfully.
Since your coaching, I no longer choose to be a victim and am moving forward
- Recognize problems before they arise
- Keep your skill level and
- Your good intentions do not ensure good relationships
- Good relationships don't just happen - you create them
- Consequences do not care how good were your intentions
- Children carry their parent's unresolved emotional baggage
Relationship Skills & Systemic Solutions
There are no limits to the happiness of good
... nor to the suffering of bad relationships.
Deficiencies in relationship skills will make any
Martyn teaches people to coach others to improve relationships,
to resolve conflicts and discuss sensitive issues peacefully. His systemic
relationship skills training follows years of research and more years of practice.
Some of the academics I meet are predators. Perhaps
they have to be that way to survive academia. They more often want
to plagiarize our work than create their own. Martyn 2004
Relationship skills form a hierarchy related to
maturity. If you stop developing - at any age - then your relationship skills
remain stuck at that age. In a crisis, you may act like a child. We help you
untangle whatever delayed your progress - and catch up on the years in between.
We coach people to enjoy a sense of
life that is only available
to the emotionally mature.
Online Life Coaching
Do you want to manage emotional problems and relationship challenges?
I thought you were just
another therapist - but you were not just. Not even. Not only.
Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Jan Sikorski 2004
All rights reserved.