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Help for Emotional Blocks & Relationship Issues

Can You Change?  .  Prices & Costs  .  Specialty Packages

I read your articles for a year. I don't know why I waited so long to call you!
I understand myself now and I am making wonderful changes to my life.

Do you avoid help until your anger, sadness or anxiety reaches a crisis?
Do you wait until your relationships, your income or your health are at risk?
Why not find solutions before relationship problems become an emotional crisis?

I never experienced better coaching in my life. It was life changing and I recommend
Martyn's coaching to anyone who wants to improve quality of private and business life.

Stephen Werft
MA, Management Consultant / Trainer

If you lack the courage to start - you are already finished.
Do you want to change or reconcile some relationships?
Do you want to manage anger, sadness, anxiety, guilt or shame?

Solve Emotional and Relationship Problems

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1.  Do you seek coaching or therapy?  Check this table.
2.  Are you coachable?  Answer these questions
3.  Select a coach  and make appointments
4.  Pay  for  our  time  and  experience
 5.  Contact us at the agreed times
6.  Review what you learned
7.  Follow  your  plan!


Step 1) Do you want life coaching, relationship counseling
or emotional therapy?

You have to walk some roads alone ... and on some roads we can accompany you.
We mentor helping professionals who wish assistance or guidance with difficult clients.
We coach coaches, we counsel counselors and we guide therapists.

You can check our values and methods in our public talks, seminars, books and articles.
Chat with us online - perhaps by Skype - let's explore how well we can work together.


Step 2) We cannot help everybody. Please seek local help if ...

* You are under 18
* You want free coaching
* You may harm yourself or others
* You cannot  cope with change or stress
* You  need  medication  or  drugs  to  function
* You want treatment for clinical psychological disorders
* You have no good relationships or you generally avoid people
* You are generally dysfunctional  -  you cannot cope with  daily tasks


Step 3) We cannot coach everybody. Are you ready?

Are you mostly mature and responsible? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you friendly? Do you have good friends? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you reliable? Do you finish what you start? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you honest? Do you usually avoid deception? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you usually proactive  to solving life challenges? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you financially ready to invest in your own future? YES - MAYBE - NO
Have you suffered enough?  Do you want to change? YES - MAYBE - NO
Can  you  enjoy using new ways  and  new  behaviors? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you ready to explore and change any  self-sabotage? YES - MAYBE - NO
Do you intend  to improve your health, wealth and happiness? YES - MAYBE - NO

For each YES - give yourself 3 points
 * For each MAYBE - only 1 point
 * Count your points ...
Under 12 - Do you really want to change? Email us when you're ready
Over 12 - You want to change soon. Let's start working together!
Over 24 - You could be a great coach. Consider our coach training


Step 4) We cannot please everybody. Choose your Coach.

Copy, paste, complete and email to:
Name: Partnership Status: City / time zone:
Age: Health: Problem started:
Major goals:
Major problems:
Negative emotions:
Relationship problems:
Additional information:
Which article did you like?
What have you already tried?
When would you like to start?
Do you have Skype and PayPal accounts?

We do not open email attachments - just copy and paste this into your email.

How many sessions do you need? This depends on how realistic you are, on how many problems
you want to resolve, your maturity, your relationships, your health, your benefits for staying stuck,
on how hard you work and on how much you want to chat.

We honor your freedom so we do not demand contracts.
Most people ask for coaching, training or support for six months to one year.
Most sessions are about 50 to 60 minutes.

Step 5) Invest in Yourself: Prices & Payments

Prepaid Specialty Coaching Packages

Step 6) Contact us at the Agreed Time

Do you want a few sessions for simple goals, or longer support for complex situations?
It's your choice. For telephone / Skype sessions or packages - pay in advance by PayPal or bank transfer,
and we will meet by telephone or Skype at the agreed times.

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Online Coaching, Counseling & Therapy Sessions

Single sessions US $95 / session (50 - 60 minutes)
Prepaid packages US $395 / 5 sessions
If we phone you

     US $5 / hour (extra) in USA & Canada. For elsewhere, please ask

If we come to you Our rate plus expenses - 10 hours minimum

     Most people pay by PayPal or bank transfer

If you cancel within 24 hours of a booked session there is a 50% fee.
If we miss an appointment without notifying you ... your next session is free.
We offer discounts to residents of Eastern Europe, India
and Third World countries, depending on our available time.

Do you prefer Prepaid Coaching Packages?

If you use a Wi-Fi laptop or mobile phone, please ensure that
you have a full battery and good wireless reception.
Check your speakers / headset / microphone.
Please don't call us while you are driving!


Step 6) Contact us at the Agreed Times

Do you want a few sessions for simple goals, or longer support for complex situations?
You choose. For telephone / Skype sessions or packages - pay in advance by PayPal or bank transfer,
and we will meet by telephone or Skype at the agreed times.

Much of my life energy focused on old wounds and habits. I was stuck, feeling that
I could not change. Martyn helped me make a big shift in the way I think about
myself, my past, and what's possible.
Mark Lowenstein, California


Step 7) Follow your Plan

Choose changes that you can apply in your life until they become become part of who you are.
Instead of trying to do things, those things become part of what you naturally do.

Contact us to prepare for difficult conversations or awkward transitions.

Thank you for being my coach and helping me figure out what is best for me,
rather than trying to program me with your own agenda
. Philadelphia

Getting the Most from Life

I thought you were just another therapist - but you were not just. Not even. Not only.

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 2009-2018
All rights reserved.

If you like our work, please link to us. If you know someone who might benefit,
please mention or

For online help, email us at:

Soulwork systemic coaching in America & Hawaii


Soulwork systemic coaching in England, Wales & Scotland

Soulwork systemic coaching in Croatia & Serbia

Soulwork systemic coaching in Poland



Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email