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There seem to be no limits to the pleasure of healthy relationships
and no limits to the suffering from unpleasant or negative emotions.

Healthy relationships, like wealth and happiness, require intelligent
decisions, healthy relationships, good planning and focused effort.

We can help you solve emotional and relationship problems.

If I wanted to renew my sense of calm or if I wanted a burst of energy to get
me through the week, you guys always pulled through.
North Carolina, USA

About Us

Perhaps, like you, some of us had difficult childhoods and perhaps,
like you, some of us have suffered complex relationships. And perhaps,
like you, we also learned ways to cope that were not very effective.

As a result, we sought effective ways to change. We studied and asked questions. We tested many methods, then developed our own. Now we help people manage negative emotions, change limiting beliefs, and solve relationship problems.

Most of us are psychologists, many of us are trained therapists with years of experience and some of us are professional trainers. We often present our workshops, courses and trainings at:

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Origins of Soulwork Systemic Solutions

Our questions help us ask better questions.
Your answers help you create better answers.

Some of our Team

Founder: Martyn Carruthers

I have been a paramedic on nuclear submarines, a health physics technician in the British nuclear industry and Radiation Protection Officer for the Canadian government. I was educated at the Royal Naval Medical School, with additional training at University of Toronto, MIT, Harvard, Erickson college and elsewhere.

While working for the Canadian government, I began applying accelerated learning techniques, hypnotherapy and expert modeling to family therapy. I was the first trainer certified by the Erickson College in Vancouver. Later I studied pre-contact Hawaiian healing and and integrated some of its therapeutic applications into my work .

After developing this philosophy and these methods for
ten years with a huge variety of people, I founded
Soulwork Systemic Solutions
in 1995.

Your goals are holograms of your past and your future, your family and your relationships, your emotions and your beliefs. We can help you be strong and creative in areas in which you are competent, and we can coach you in areas where you want to be more competent.
Martyn Carruthers

Kosjenka Muk

I have been a special education teacher, a certified trainer of Soulwork Systemic Solutions and a published author. Many of my articles are posted here.

I manage Centar Angel, in Croatia, where we coach individuals and counsel couples, and where we teach workshops on self-esteem, happy partnership,
verbal self-defense and other topics.

I wrote and published two books - Emotional Maturity and Verbal Self-Defense. I teach Soulwork Systemic Solutions internationally and I have taught in Croatia, England, Slovakia, Slovenia, Serbia, Czech Republic,
Mexico, Canada and Hawaii.
Trnsko 13A, Novi Zagreb, Croatia 10020 Telephone +3 851 652 1213

Our systemic solutions can provide steps and paths to your goals.
 Our goals are joyful couples, effective teams and happy families.

Richard Diehl

Richard Diehl (Ph.D. M.Ed. L.Ac) specializes in nutrition and gentle detoxification. He is a member of the American Association of Diabetes Educators and is a Certified Advanced Rolfing® Practitioner (he studied with Dr. Ida Rolf). Richard is a Certified Nutrition Specialist and Traditional Naturopath® and has lectured in 9 countries on 5 continents.
PO Box 11991 Honolulu, Hawaii 96828 Tel +1 (808) 923 4041

Many people distort their lives due to relationship problems.
We help people relate as complete human beings.


Marinka Spodniak

You can peacefully change your life when you become aware of the origins of negative emotions and beliefs. Your "Bingo" resources wait for you! 


We help people manage emotions, change beliefs and dissolve habits that hold them back. Our change-work is more powerful than most people can imagine.


My inner child coaching can free you from trauma and help you open your doors to maturity
and lasting happiness.


Are you making the world a better place? Do you make a difference?
You are part of the life of this planet, and your life is important. Use it well.

Stephen Werft

As a management & sales consultant I often work with individuals and organizations on their sales competencies and to develop their managerial and leadership skills. Almost always during our work we uncover and solve deeper systemic obstacles that stand in the way of their improvement and business success.

I specialize in sales and management coaching. I'm a certified systemic coach and work for a Croatian management consulting company. My clients are mostly managers and employees of SME's and NGO's in Croatia, Bosnia and Serbia who wish to improve their organizational climate, professional relationships and sales results.

People who tell us that they achieved all their goals - often had very few goals!

Kelly Lynn

Be patient and generous with yourself and others, and assume that your life and everyone in it are
in service to your evolution as a human being.


Popular transcripts: Complex Conflict, Lost Resources

If you need more information, please ask us.

Popular relationship articles: PartnershipPartnership Breakdown
Fathers and DaughtersFathers and SonsMothers and Sons
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Parental AlienationMature PartnershipSelf Esteem

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We do not represent any old age, new age, religious, social or
political groups, businesses, religions or cults! We are a non-prophet organization!

New Book!
Emotional Maturity in Everyday Life

Coming Book ... Systems Coaching for Therapists and Counselors

Few helping professionals use systemic coaching in their practices.
This book will assist helping professionals to use systemic coaching.

We demonstrate the diagnostic and therapeutic benefits of systems coaching and its applications in therapy, counseling and consulting. Our systemic approach can help you assess and remedy emotional and relationship issues.

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Soulwork systemic coaching in America & Hawaii


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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email