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The Relationship Coaching Institute

Solve Relationship Problems

Martyn Carruthers

We present interactive and demonstration-rich workshops on systemic coaching, solving relationship problems, resolving family chaos and relationship bonds. Email us if you would like a workshop.

Put ELATION into RELATIONS

Systemic coaching can help you find solutions for all aspects of relationships - from friendship to dating to marriage; from making friends to creating community, from groups to focused communities. Soulwork coaching encourages your health and your passion. Learn how to change singles to Soulmates - groups to top teams - and lonely families to dynamic community members.

Soulwork training offers you training, aptitude, motivation and responsibility, specialty skills and supervised practice. Soulwork relationship coaching includes solving problems for partners, friends, teams, parents and communities. Arrogance can lead to destruction.

Your decision to end relationship problems will reflect your motivation, your responsibility and your perception of consequences of improving your relationships - and of ignoring them. What do you want your life to look like five years from now? What about the health of your family?

Emotional Maturity . Meaning of Life

Solve Relationship Problems

There is no limit to the happiness of quality relationships - nor to the suffering of dysfunctional relationships.

You can create joy and harmony or boredom and conflict. You can rigidly demand that people relate to you only by your rules - or you can learn to enjoy flexibility. Systemic coaching includes a wide variety of conflict resolution skills.

Relationship skills form a natural hierarchy related to "emotional" maturity. If you stop developing - at any age - then your relationship skills remain stuck at that age. You may behave like a teenager or young child, especially in a crisis.


Individual Relationships

Systemic coaching can help you commence, improve and sometimes end, all types of relationships. We can coach you to resolve relationship problems, and to prepare for future challenges. Individual Coaching may include crisis resolution, relationship clarification, relationship skill training, conflict management, belief change, trauma resolution and mentorship.

  1. Define relationship goals
  2. Resolve existing crises
  3. Clarify past and present relationships
  4. Dissolve inner conflicts
  5. Adjust relationship beliefs
  6. Resolve relationship trauma
  7. Find appropriate mentors

The absence of integrity relationship skills leads to suffering, loneliness and depression. Quality relationship coaching helps people end suffering and take steps towards the long-term happiness of healthy and high-integrity relationships.

Friendship Problems

Your friends range from casual acquaintance to close friends. Good friends are life blessings - but maintaining good friends is not luck. Friendship requires skill.

Relationship coaching can help you develop and improve your friendship skills and solve problems with friends, which are pre-requisites for effective teamwork, happy partnership and parenthood.


Couple Problems

Good Couple Coaching can save you years of trial-and-error and suffering. Relationship coaching simultaneously helps you and your partner to build or improve double vision. We coach couples to evaluate their partnership, to resolve relationship problems, and to prepare for future challenges.

Couple Coaching . Evaluate Partnership

Integrity coaching helps you and your partner:

  •  rebuild your joyous relationship
  •  resolve guilty transgressions and the consequences of affairs
  •  share your values
  •  clean up past partnerships and previous romances
  •  change toxic relationship habits
  •  separate peacefully and with dignity, if all hope has faded

Are your couple problems based in your relationship history? Systemic relationship coaching includes resolving abandonment, betrayal, crisis and trauma.

Couple Coaching may include Premarital Coaching to prepare for long-term commitment, - or Separation Coaching - to peacefully disconnect and rebuild your separate lives.

Relationship coaching helps couples:

  1. Define relationship goals
  2. Compare values and requirements
  3. Clarify past and present relationships
  4. Provide individual changework as required
  5. Dissolve relationship conflicts
  6. Prepare a couple to handle challenges
  7. Assist couple to find own solutions

Team Problems

Team coaching can helps you work together to achieve goals that you cannot achieve alone. We coach team members support and protect each other! We coach team leaders to identify and organize resources, and get appropriate feedback and information.

Team coaching simultaneously coaches all team members to work together effectively. Team coaching includes coaching the formation of new teams, maintaining and enhancing existing teams and training team leaders. We also assist team members to separate without stress.

Team coaching helps people work together:

  1. Define team objectives
  2. Define team leader's role and tasks
  3. Select and coach team leaders
  4. Define task content and priorities
  5. Select new team members
  6. Define team rules in four categories
  7. Dissolve hidden agendas and other objections

Team Hidden Agendas

  • The leader must be wrong - we prove that we know more, or we sabotage the leader
  • We want to work independently - we ensure that our team effort is unproductive
  • We pressure our members - we try to make members conform rather than develop
  • We do not want to work - we want recognition, protection and rewards without effort
  • We want recognition - we want the leaders to praise us

Family Problems

Families are intimate teams! Families feed and shelter the young and the old, and provide morals and values that shape individual lives.

Family coaching helps families to resolve internal and external challenges. Family coaching simultaneously coaches your family members to resolve challenges in ways that increase family harmony and resourcefulness.

Family members can receive integrity coaching to present their needs and fears. Each member can be coached to "try" other member's perspectives. Each member can be coached to examine family conflict as a mutual problem. Family coaching works.

[ Systemic Family Coaching ]

Relationship coaching helps families:

  1. Define family objectives
  2. Define member responsibilities
  3. Define member resources
  4. Define family rules
  5. Provide individual changework
  6. Dissolve transferences
  7. Dissolve entanglements, guilt, beliefs, trauma etc

Parenthood Problems

Parenthood - raising children to independent adulthood demands years of loving patience and strength. Many parents are not prepared for parenthood - Parenthood Coaching can support to parents who need additional resources.

Many parenthood problems result from role-confusion. If adults behave childishly, or if adults want to be treated as children - children become confused. Parent coaching helps responsible parents resolve parenthood problems.

[ Learning Disabilities . Parental Alienation . Children of Divorce ]


Corporate Problems

Corporate coaching helps business owners, CEOs and upper management to plan, negotiate, interview and sell. This may include Relationship Management, Strategic Planning, Creativity Coaching and Decision Coaching. Business Coaching may require expertise in management, promotion, human resources (HR), information transfer (IT) and leadership.

Corporate relationship coaching offers:

  •  Advanced Human Resources expertise and support

  •  Integrity Sales seminars and workshops

  •  Creativity Coaching for individuals and groups

  •  Team building and teamwork with integrity

  •  Stress and Anger Management for teams

Corporate Systemic Coaching


Organizational Problems

Systemic Coaching helps management teams simultaneously evaluate and redefine effective communication. Instead you can solve management problems and create an efficient network, fine-tuned and taught to line staff in workshop that can includes sales, negotiation and/or interview skills.

Systemic relationship coaching helps managers and leaders:

  1. Define organizational objectives
  2. Define leader's role and tasks
  3. Select and coach leaders
  4. Define tasks and priorities
  5. Define organizational resources
  6. Select management team
  7. Define management rules and responsibilities

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Professional Training

Do you want private coaching or professional training? We can train you to coach individuals, partners and teams to resolve a wide range of physical, emotional, educational & relationship challenges.


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+1 808 328 9570

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+1 905 664 8844

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+38 591 881 2682

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Systems 1 How to evaluate relationship dynamics and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, identify blocks, resolve objections & plan for success
Systems 3 How to provide or continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma, and rebuild motivation
Systems 5 How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7 How to resolve therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8 How to coach partners to build lasting happiness and avoid partnership breakdown
Systems 9 How to coach parents to resolve family problems and to set and enjoy family goals
Systems 10 How to coach team leaders to develop teams while solving team problems
Specialty Advanced workshops and specialty training tailored to fulfill your goals and needs

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2009 All rights reserved. These Systemic Solutions were primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We coach and train people to succeed by solving emotional and relationship problems. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. Link to our pages, but get Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.

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