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Welcome! As you explore these pages -  consider what you really want.
We offer many ways for you to dissolve blocks and reach your goals.

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 Online Life Coaching, Counselling, Therapy & Training

Some of our Team

Martyn Carruthers: Founder Soulwork Systemic Solutions

Do you, your family or  friends suffer from
your bad habits and painful memories
... but you don't get help?

Our Systemic Psychology solves

Kosjenka Muk, Trainer of  Soulwork Systemiic Coaching

Existential Issues
Couple Coaching
Family Problems


Magda, Inner Child & Emotional Coaching Relationship Conflicts
Anxiety, Worrying
Low self-esteem
Eating disorders
Sleep problems
Richard Diehl, Naturopath and Health Coaching Expert
Inner Child Work

Resolving negative emotions and relationship
issues are essential steps for healthy lives.

Richard Diehl
Naturopathy &
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Premin - help for emotional issues

Joanna: soulworkcoaching for parenting and business

Children & Education
Stephen Werft
Management &
Sales Training

Abundance & Fulfillment

Leon Deith
Spirituality & Balanced Life
Business &
Team Coaching

Parenting & Business


Motivation is not about willpower.
Motivation is about how much you are willing to suffer.

Systemic Psychology for Professionals


Can we help you?

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You helped me change a boring life that my parents had so tediously planned,
into an exciting life that is rich and full and deep
. Hawaii

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You focused on our values, goals and on what excites us. ... your work became an important step on our life journey. You didn't try to do things to us ... you helped us choose our options. We enjoyed working with you. Sydney

I had been waiting for my employees to change ...
your management coaching helped me improve my leadership skills.

My wife bought me your Soulwork counseling as a present.
I was cynical and cautious, but it's GREAT!

Fathers & Daughters . Fathers & Sons . Mothers & Sons .
 Mothers & Daughters

You didn't tell us what we wanted to hear, you told us what we needed to hear! Your honest provocation won our respect and our trust! Australia

Soulwork in Action (YouTube)

You helped us hire people who like people. You coached us in interview strategies and you helped our employees clean up their lives ... many people now tell us that they would do anything to work for us. London

Online Help: Coaching, Marriage Counseling & Training

A LOT of your articles appeal to me. Emotional Incest, Passive-Aggressive, Little Prince, Ho'oponopono, Men and Mothers, Identification, Entity Possession and more. I couldn't believe all this in one place!. Oregon

Online Life Coaching & Counseling Philosophy

... you do not represent any new age, old age, religious, social or political groups, businesses, religions or cults! You are a non-prophet organization.

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Being ignorant is bliss compared to being misinformed. My therapist diagnosed me with a bunch of complexes and offered me months or years of therapy.
After a few sessions with you, I called my problems simplexes - and after a few more I called them history.

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I got from the first session a load of information that went
beyond my high expectations. And it produces more, by using.
After a few sessions with you, I felt HAPPY.
New York

For Counselors & Therapists

Thank you so much for your couple counseling. Your professionalism and experience helped us solve many of our marriage problems. London

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My parents damaged me. You helped me clean up the mess.

I wanted to explore my dreams and learn lucid dreaming. You delivered.

You helped me to manage my anger.

You helped me deal with my teenage abortion.

You helped me sort out my abuse from my aggressive parents

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Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Understand your emotions, fixations and enmeshments
What do you hope for? Know your goals and stop sabotaging yourself
Do you feel resourceful? Learn to develop your inner resources
Do emotions block you? Relationship problems and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you feel connected? Resolve identity issues to recover lost resources
Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and their teams develop together
Do you have complex goals? Specialty coaching, counseling & therapy

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright Martyn Carruthers 1996-2018  All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers to help people solve emotional problems and relationship conflicts to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work - email